Although sometimes it feels that things are out of our control, no matter how hard we try to do our very best at something, it just does not materialise. Other times we assume that we are destined to fail and we become a ‘victim’ finding lots of ‘excuses’ and ‘reasons’ for why our grey world is the way it is.

1. I would like you to think of something you have really wanted to achieve in life

2. Now I would like to you list all the reasons you told yourself you couldn’t do it

3. Ask yourself 3 questions, are those things are ‘100% true and factual’, ‘false’ or you just ‘don’t know?’

What did you find?

Typically, 99% of the time, things are within our sphere of Influence, not out.

Therefore, we have so much more control than we assume and want to believe. When you allow your mind to fill with negative thoughts, you stop yourself doing things that could make your life happier and complete.